WHAT NEXT?

At some point in our lives, we always get to the crossroads where we ask ourselves what next? Either after the loss of a job, loss of a loved one, after our wedding ceremony or any other event, not getting a visa, resigning from a job, relocating to a new town. Whatever the situation is, there is always a point we get to where we ask ourselves, what next?

The truth is sometimes the answer drops immediately while in some cases the answer does not drop. When the answer drops we are happy but this happens due to certain factors:

• Having a plan
• Not deciding alone
• Having the means and opportunity to do anything we want immediately

This feeling is sweet as there is no holding back because we have scripted our plan beforehand so we can just go back to it and check the next item. When the decision of what to do next is not entirely up to you it can also be a relief as you as just in the passenger seat and not the driver seat so you suggest and watch what happens next. Sincerely this is sweet, you think less, spend less and in some cases, you are not even involved because you are on the receiving end. So what you receive is what you will use to work. The last group in this category are those who have the means and opportunity to do anything they want immediately. When the means and opportunity are there, what else do you need? Having thing done require a means and an opportunity so when they are at your disposal life just flows. 

The next group of people are those whose answer does not drop. This is the group that require a lot of thinking, a lot of quiet time but the painful part is time is not usually on their side. They need to decide what to do next otherwise they get lost or stuck. They might have a plan, they might be the masters of themselves but the means and opportunity to do that which they really want to do are not there. So the question, WHAT NEXT? Stares them in the face and they are just powerless; they are powerless.

The only thing they can do and this is what they do most times is to have another plan or continue with is happening because they can not correct it neither can they change it.

Everyone wants to be happy but when the means and opportunity to be happy is not there the initial question pops up WHAT NEXT?

So if you are reading this and you have experienced this, share with us what you did and how you discovered the next thing to do. If you are reading this and you are currently experiencing this, my advice is to have another plan, one that is within your means. 

The most important thing is to have a goal and start no matter how small. To further find more about what to do next please pick up Kerry Hannon book WHAT NEXT and I assure you that you will find an answer.